The Father's Advice To His Son Before Marriage

 The father's advice to a son who was going to get married was said by his father,

 your grandfather said,, 

1. Do you know why the new wife is brought in a palanquin? He could also be brought in a bullock cart. Instead of doing that, he is brought to the palanquin, for to show how honored he is. This honor cannot be reduced after being brought down in the palanquin. He should be kept in honor of Palki for the rest of his life. 

2. How do you know that the new wife gets into the palanquin? cry Why cry? Not just for the abandoned relatives. He also cries for fear of how the new life will be. You will try to cry in Palki so that it is his last cry. After that he will cry on only two occasions. One is the joy of becoming a mother, another time she will cry after you leave. You will wipe away the tears of the sadness that comes in the middle. 

3. The wife suffers the most from her husband's misbehavior, look, I am very bad-tempered, but no one can say that I have ever spoken in a loud voice in front of your mother. 

4. Marriage means taking responsibility for another girl. If it is not performed properly, one has to be responsible to Allah. 

5. Another thing, not all girls have good cooking skills, but everyone tries their best to cook well. So I will never give my wife a dig with cooking. 

6. I will never call my wife's parents 'my father-in-law, my mother-in-law'. Parents will call. No girl likes the previous calls, if you call them, the wife will call us.

If you don't respect them, she won't respect us. This is the rule. 

Allah Ta'ala's scale is equal, whatever you do on one scale, He keeps the weight of two scales in another scale.